<p><i>@Weltall8000:</i>
</p><p>The argument that one didn't see much of a romantic relationship's development, I can at least somewhat see some merit to. Much of it was ambiguous. But to say there wasn't much development toward them being close friends is just blindness. Since Book 3 they had quite a bit of on screen interaction and were shown spending alot of time together, whether on a mission or while on their off time. We have Korra confiding in her, and only her, while remaining completely incognito toward her other friends.
</p><p>In regards to a lack of development for their friendship I was speaking strictly about <i>prior</i> to Books 3 and 4, we certainly saw them develop a close friendship over those two books, but prior to that, the two of them had barely any interaction with each other and nothing to really indicate anything like a sisterly bond or extremely close frienship with each other. In all of both Book 1 and 2, the only moment that really comes to mind for me where Korra and Asami had any significant interaction was the racing scene, and a little bit when Asami was moving onto Air Temple Island. I don't remember when the scene with Asami trying to teach Korra how to drive was, but for some reason I seem to remember it happening in Book 3 >_> I will of course happily stand corrected if I'm wrong, but that's when I seem to remember it happening...
</p><p>In any case, at the very beginning of Book 3, it was rather jarring and felt kind of forced having them interact like rather close friends because Korra and Asami hadn't had the screen-time and interactions that Korra had had with Mako and Bolin up to that point. Yes, you can say they got closer off-screen, but that kind of thing is rather poor development and writing when it's characters who have only met over the course of the story. When it's characters who have only met over the course of the story (as opposed to being depicted as knowing each other from long before, like Korra and Tenzin, or being related like Mako and Bolin where the writing and development can be a little bit more flexible), the audience needs to see the friendships and relationships actually develop on-screen in order for them to really be believable.
</p><p>Seeing as they didn't depict it as such, I fail to see how this applies to them.
</p><p>Korra and Asami walked to the portal after deciding to go on a vacation with just the two of them and held hands. Word of God claims they are an item now. That's it. As far as their relationship goes, it seems to have followed a fairly natural progression of being friends, being better friends, now trying out dating. They didn't say that Korra and Asami got married when they walked into the portal, they didn't declare undying love for one another. Maybe such feelings will develop, but that's not what we're shown at this point. Why is it being treated like this came from nowhere, and is them going from 0 to 100 when it's really more like they were at 80 and went to 81?
</p><p>And I wasn't talking specifically about Korra and Asami at that point but more how writing relationships in a story should be handled or what would be an example of bad writing when it comes to one. I was talking about relationship more in general terms than anything specific (like Korrasami or any of the pairings that were listed in the post I responded to) in the early/beginning paragraph of that post.
</p><p>Sure, there were the building blocks from meeting each other to becoming friends, and then better friends, but there wasn't anything to directly show that they had a romantic interest in each other or any attraction, which is a pretty big prerequisite for having two characters start dating each other. Obviously Bryke intended for their to be the natural steps to build up to them dating, but if your steps are so subtle that pretty much <i>only</i> the people that are shipping or supportive of the Korrasami pairing see it, and it has to be officially confirmed via Word of God in order for people to actually believe it happened, then you were either too subtle, or there wasn't any appropriate development for the pairing at all. For a very large portion of the audience Korrasami pretty much <i>did</i> come from nowhere. To use your numbers/counting analogy, sure, them becoming close friends for the most part was counting naturally (IE, going from 80-81), but the actual Korrasami pairing is making a pretty big jump and skip counting (like from going from 5-15).
</p><p>More that he liked Korra more/had more in common with her and Korra was persistent. Korra and Mako wasn't bad writing, it was just a bad pairing, which seemed intentional, like you say. But it totally makes sense for them to have tried dating, both are attractive, have something interesting about them, and the way it all happened makes it seem like fate. I'd definitely be interested if I were either party in that scenario. The angle Korra was working takes a little more time to develop.
</p><p>Well, if Mako didn't really like Korra and vica versa, maybe Mako and Asami would have actually worked out or lasted longer.
</p><p>Dating someone right after meeting them doesn't make a relationship fail. Sometimes it works very well, sometimes it doesn't, but it's not an inherently flawed way to start a romantic relationship.
</p><p>Whether Makorra is a bad pairing or not is actually <i>extremely</i> subjective, and as such, I'm really not going to get into that argument/open <i>that</i> can of worms. Suffice to say, everything that you said about Masami applies just as much to Makorra. Both Masami <i>and</i> Makorra could have worked out just fine in the end if they'd been willing to put in the work. Relationships take work in order to succeed, and it felt to me like both Masami and Makorra ultimately failed in the end because they decided to just give up in the end rather than work to keep the relationship successful.
</p><p>You're right, dating (dating and a relationship are kind of a different standard to me >_> For me, it's you start dating someone, and then a relationship comes later with more time) someone pretty much right after meeting them isn't inherently flawed or a bad way to start off (it is how an awful lot of successful couples start afterall), I do think though that jumping right up to full relationship level right after meeting someone <i>is</i> going to be problematic more often than not, and that's what I feel like Mako and Asami's whole relationship was, kind of just blowing past the whole dating thing and jumping into a full relationship/couple-hood right away. That sort of thing doesn't guarentee a relationship is going to fall apart like Masami did, but it <i>does</i> typically mean that there are going to be problems that come up.
</p><p>Nick just went through and put together a top five Korrasami moments, four of which were prior to the final scene, and those are just a handful of their interactions in their developing relationship. They did show, just they didn't tell us what they were showing us until after the fact. Some of us picked up on this vibe, speculated that it was a reasonable conclusion, we were mocked, then in the end it turned out we were right. Now, I don't hold it against others that didn't see it, if they were holding out for more definitive proof, fair enough, I cannot fault that, but at this point, with the ending, with the Word of God on the subject, it really establishes the context in which all of that occurred.
</p><p>This goes back to what I was talking about a little earlier on in this post (and in some of my other ones too). I'm not going to be as presumptuous as to say that <i>only</i> people who read hints of Korrasami coming or the two of them being into other were shippers, however, Korrasami shippers were the only people that I've <i>personally</i> seen saying that the pairing was coming or that the hints were there. Which just stinks/smacks of confirmation bias, if the <i>shippers</i> of a specific relationship are the most prevailent ones seeing evidence for something, the pairing really needs work. As I said earlier in the post, it means the development was either <i>far</i> too subtle, or there just really wasn't any development spent on the relationship or not nearly enough.
</p><p>For an example of shippers seeing what they want to see and exhibiting their confirmation bias...just look around at the Makorra shippers who were convinced that Mako and Korra were going to get back together in the end and the "evidence" of it that they picked up on. Shippers really aren't a reliable source of evidence because they just see what they want to see, regardless of what actually is. Yes, in the case of Korrasami they proved to be right in the end, but my point still stands that if shippers of a specific pairing are pretty much the only ones or the vast majority of people claiming the pairing, then that pairing has a pretty significant issue from a technical standpoint.
</p><p>Why do they need to show this huge attraction before they consider starting a romantic relationship? Asami and Mako started with her hitting him with the moped, and within a minute asking him to go to dinner with her, ie, a date. Korra and Asami are clearly close (and if you don't see that, that's your failing) and Korra basically asks Asami out. Varrick and Zhu'Li were in a non romantic relationship for three seasons and suddenly decide to get marrried. Where's the outrage about that? "But that's different!" Well, how? "They were closely working with each other and spending alot of time together so they develop romantic feelings toward each other, duh!" Hmm, you don't say...
</p><p>It was obvious from that first scene between Mako and Asami that he at least <i>was</i> attracted to her from the start..well, at least as soon as he knew he'd gotten "run over" by a fairly attractive woman :P And I'm not really sure that I'd call it a date since it was supposed to be making up for her hitting him with her moped :/
</p><p>For a lot of people Varrick and Zhu'Li having romantic feelings for each other was something very sudden or even out of the blue as well. Both pairings might make sense to you or you migth see the needed development was given to them, but for a lot of people that just isn't the case and it's especially true for Korra and Asami getting together.
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