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Bending was granted spritually, and became a hereditary trait, just like eye color or hair type. It can be dominant or recessive, depending on the person. This is like
Force sensitivity in Star Wars, explaining how some people are Force-sensitive and others aren't. But there are obviously no
midi-
chlorians involved in this.
</p><p>I think that in most cases, bending is a recessive gene. This would explain why bending is not that common, as in all nations except the Air Nomads (because bending was granted to all of them back in the
Era of Raava) nonbenders represent the majority of the other nations' populations.
</p><p>Another parallel that this resembles is the
mutant gene in the Marvel multiverse, in which (at least in its mainstream universe,
Earth-616) mutant genes were given to humanity by the Eternals, an ancient cosmic race of essentially gods. This is similiar to how bending was granted unto humanity by the lion-turtles. I won't forget to mention that the mutant gene also seems to be recessive or simply rare, as a very small percent of humanity are mutants.
</p><p>My point is,
Kiyi could be a firebender, but it is highly unikely, as she has never displayed any signs of so, nor has it been mentioned nor implied. Genetically, it is also very unlikely, as bending is seemingly a rare or at least recessive gene, and as she had two nonbending parents, making it all the more unlikely that she is a firebender. But who know, I could be wrong. But I still believe she is a nonbender just like her parents.
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