<div class="quote"><i>Neo Bahamut wrote:
1. Then you don't know what "valid" means. Your opinion is uninformed, 1 reason to not respect it. That you straw man questioning your logic as "bashing you for not liking the character" is another reason. There are others.
Believing something doesn't mean it's automatically valuable information.
<p>2. I say your opinion is not respectable BECAUSE you won't justify it logically. Of course you can choose not to do that, but that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to criticize you for it. That's completely unfair, you're asking me to give you equal consideration to someone who actually puts in the work to prove their point. And all of this time you spend complaining about not being taken seriously, you COULD be showing that I'm wrong. If indeed I am. Not to mention, nobody ever explains why, according to the inane argument that "every opinion is equal," having the opinion that this statement is wrong is the exception.
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<p>1. Oh yes, trust Wikipedia to give you the perfect picture of what a Mary-Sue character is like. You do know that definitions change as time goes on, right? Just because this one person made the Mary-Sue term a long time ago doesn't mean that it can't change to fit modern times. And just because <i>you </i>think my opinion is uninformed, it doesn't mean you can't respect it. Whatever happened to "letting people believe what they believe"? I have all of the evidence I need to make a judgement on Jinora's character, and I've decided that I don't like her. Why can't you just let me have my opinion and leave me alone? I'm not making a judgement on you, or the writers of the show. I'm making a judgement based on <i>Jinora</i> herself. And while you could argue that me judging Jinora does pertain to the judgement of the writers, I am in no way saying that they suck for making her. I'm saying that I don't like Jinora as a person. Let's say you don't like someone in your class at school. Would you blame their parents for raising them to be someone you dislike? No. You would take a look at them and say "I don't like you because you're you." And I don't think there's anything wrong with that, as long as you can stay in your lane. It does become a problem, however, when you let your dislike of that person grow so big that you take it out on them. That's when it becomes unacceptable. And I don't consider my hatred of Jinora valuable information. You're right when you say that believing something doesn't automatically consider it valuable. But just because it isn't valuable, doesn't mean it can't be respected. And when I say "respected" I mean, "letting me believe what I want to believe without trying to convince me or put me down"
</p><p>2. Just because I choose not to justify my answer doesn't make it not respectable. If I said something like "do you like apples?" and you said "no", am I going to pester you with questions to justify why you don't like apples? No. It'd be one thing if you were allergic to them, but in this case the reason why you said "no" was because you just don't like the flavour. And so I'm not going to argue with you about apples, I'm going to say, "Okay. That's your opinion and I respect it." That's all I'm asking for here. To begin with, I never asked for any comment on my original post about how much I hated Jinora. My opinion is still valid, even if I choose not to justify it. I have my reasons, and even if you don't see them, that's alright. I don't like Jinora because she's Jinora. She, <i>as a person, </i>rubs me the wrong way. And I can come up with a list if that will satisfy you. But all I'm asking for is a simple, "I respect that that is your opinion, and I will leave you to it. My opinion is different than yours, but that's okay because not everyone has to agree with me." The types of people I've run into that try to convince me to change my beliefs or opinions are the type of people who want control.
</p><p>3. And to explain to you why the term "everyone's opinion is equal" is a valid statement, refer to my apple example above. The only case in which opinions aren't equal is when someone's opinion infringes on harming other people or themselves. For instance, the opinions of which fruits are the best are all equal, because the "best fruit" is different to each person, and we should respect that their taste buds like different flavours of fruit. But opinions such as "women are less than men" or "black people are disgusting" or "gay people are wrong" are not equal, because they harm other people and infringe on the basic rights of humans.
</p><p>4. For the love of all that is holy could you just accept that I have a different opinion than yours? You don't have to like it, and you don't have to encourage it, but the least you could do is accept it and move on. It's a very easy thing to do actually. If you really want a list of why I find Jinora unappealing, I'll give it to you. I'm just concerned that for each reason I give as to why I don't like her, you're going to give a counterargument, which is not what I'm looking for. I just came here because I was glad to finally find someone else who didn't like Jinora (the OP).
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