Talk:Bolin/@comment-207.38.132.50-20120617161533/@comment-67.2.0.126-20120617180212

I won't argue for Mako as I feel enough people do that (halo effect, anyone?) but I will say this: Any girl worth a damn won't put up with a "bad boy" and any guy worth a damn won't stand for a girl who treats him poorly. It basically boils down to self-esteem: Most people stand for the abuse because they are so insecure, they think they can't do better and usually it's about looks. So, any girl/woman with good self esteem will say, "Wait a minute, I deserve better than this" without becoming a priss and go to the "nice guy" while any guy/man with good self-esteem will say, "I deserve someone who cares about me, there are plenty of other fish in the sea" without becoming an arrogant "bad boy".